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Bodies: Fascinating or disturbing…
Jan 13th
For months now, Honolulu has been hosting the “Bodies” exhibition; where previously live bodies were “rubberized” and dissected for your viewing pleasure. While it can be fascinating to learn the parts of the human body and what they look like dissected, I’m not sure I’m so comfortable about this being an exhibition. (And apparently so are many other people here in Honolulu — the exhibit seems to be lasting longer, and ticket prices keep getting reduced.)
The exhibition is controversial for reasons that include where the bodies come from and how China is making a “business” out of mummifying body parts.
What are your thoughts on the exhibition: cool or criminal? (And where are the PETH (People for the Ethical Treatment of Humans) during all this…? )
[Learn more: wikipedia, Bodies web site, HonoluluAdvertiser]
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Taking our country back
Jan 12th
I’ve seen a lot of slogans and stickers about “Take our country back to God” or “God will come back to America, when America comes back to God”. I often wonder which of the many gods that exist for the different religions and nationalities that make up this country is THE God. I know which one they THINK is THE God, because it seems that there is a very vocal Christian community. One that helped elect, and then re-elect, President Bush…
No, what I’m talking about is taking our country back to the principles that founded this nation, back to the reasons for this country, to the Founding Fathers. Listening to Carolyn Myss talk about what the spiritual ideals were for this country as a “sacred contract”; ideas such as FREEDOM for all, the archetypes of the Mystic, the Rebel, and the Slave/Master, and how (as so many others have pointed out) that there was definitely a SEPARATION of church and state, for good reasons.
Watching Bill Maher’s Religulous (though definitely designed for laughs) also highlights some of the absurdities of some of the religions followed without question by followers. Without the ability to question, and also laugh at, your own thoughts, you become as rigid and dogmatic as the institutions of religion.
Perhaps the time has come for those who don’t represent ONE particular, historical religion to start voicing their desire for mental and physical liberation. Liberation from old, outmoded beliefs along with freedom from fear (often caused by the economic inequalities that capitalism helps perpetuate). And, perhaps, we can all find our voice with a new, more compassionate presidential administration…
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Web 2.0 and Sustainability
Apr 12th
Yesterday was the Oceanic Time Warner Business Class Tech Expo at the Blaisdell. It was my first time going to it, so wasn’t sure what to expect. While the exhibitors seemed somewhat limited, and I didn’t win ANYTHING despite entering what seemed like hundreds of contests (!), there were two seminars that stood out for me. 
The first one was by Steve Bretches with IBM on Enterprise 2.0 Bringing Web 2.0 technology into the Enterprise. Steve went through what “Web 2.0″ is — things like blogs, social sites (linkedin, myspace), tagging sites (digg), RSS feeds, wiki’s, AJAX, etc. — where the CONSUMER of the product, the person actually USING it, creates their own experience.
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"Sicko" shows a beautiful vision (of possibilities)
Jan 18th
If you are like me — and since you are visiting a website about raising a peaceful family, you probably are — you’ve looked around and thought, “Dear God, there must be a better way to do things than this — this is insane!” It might be about rush hour traffic, or the lack of sustainability in Hawaii, or even just having decent medical coverage for your family.
That thought, that vision of what else is possible, is what really appealed to me in Michael Moore’s latest movie, “Sicko”. I think everyone who’s ever thought about “is this job worth it, just because it has medical coverage” can understand the feelings in this film. Moore presents cases of people suffering because medical services they needed were turned down or cost too much through their HMO coverage. (He doesn’t even get into the over 50 million people that are uninsured.)
However, it’s when he visits other countries to seeing how they do things that really got me. Canada, France, Great Britain, even Cuba, have a health plan to cover the people, all of them. And in France the government offers so many other services. As a dad, I had to use vacation time when my son was born at the company I work at. In other countries, they understand the need for time off, and being with family. Are those other countries perfect? Probably not. But is this country? Aren’t there things we could learn from other countries to improve the U.S.?
If you get the chance, rent or buy “Sicko” and see if you don’t at least feel like there IS a better way…
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Family Friendly Church Service
Dec 26th
For Christmas eve service we went to the Central Union Church (on Punahou and Beretania). Neither my wife nor I are terribly “religious”, the closest we would come to is Buddhists, however, since it was Christ-mas eve, we thought going to a Christ-ian church would be nice. We arrived for the 5:30pm service and sat in the back row since it was our first time there and we might need to make a quick escape with our crying son.
Changes after nearly 1 year
Aug 29th
Our son is almost 1 year old. Man, it’s been a wild year! From the excitement, nervousness, and joy of his birth through the 3 months of colic with him screaming for hours, to his getting stronger and healthier, to now his walking and RUNNING… Whew… Where’s the PAUSE button on this little guy?! 
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Attending infant activity classes
Jun 2nd
Our son, Mason, is now almost 9 months old. Since we don’t have any of our parents or extended family here on Oahu, Mason sees pretty much only mommy and daddy every day. So, we decided to sign him up for an activity class to get him to meet other babies and try new things.
Masako looked at several of the programs for infants in town, including Wee Play And Learn in Hawaii Kai (which was a bit far to try to drive to), and Gymboree in Kaimuki (Gymboree Play & Music: Program Locations). Both seemed very good. We went with Gymboree and it’s been fun for all of us.
Mason gets to interact and try new things, and we get to help and play with him. There’s a large playroom filled with slides, balls, and toys, plus, during the classes they sing songs, do “parachute” time, and try new activities.
It’s fascinating also to watch the other children in the classes. Some are so outgoing and friendly, others are more like Mason; shy and reserved. But I think the classes are really helping him to try new things — he went into the circle of babies on his own the other day, just looking for fun!
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Parenting Podcasts
Apr 14th
If you have an MP3 player — such as an iPod — you have probably tried listening to podcasts. Podcasts are recordings that people “post” like articles on a blog site. You can subscribe to the podcasts with software like iTunes. iTunes will find the latest podcast and automatically download it to your computer for you. Then you can transfer that MP3 file to your player. So, you can listen to something positive while you workout, walk, or take the bus to work.
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Hiking in nature
Apr 5th
For me, one of the best ways to get back to my true self is through a good hike in the woods. I can drop my thoughts and just *be* in nature. The sun through the trees, sound of unusual bird calls, and smells of blossoms in the air — really are refreshing to my soul. 
One of the reasons that my wife and I moved to Hawaii was to get more nature into our lives (from living in Japan). However, having a 7-month old son, means that I haven’t had so many opportunities to get out on hikes as I would like. Mason is almost 20 pounds now and too heavy to try to carry with the Baby Bjorn we have. But, I want to share the beauty of nature with him.
So, we bought a used baby backpack. We tried it last weekend on a hike through Tantalus. The hike was very nice. Mason fell asleep half-way through it, so Masako and I got a little “our time” together.
The backpack worked fine. Only problem was that my muscles were sore for days afterwards — guess I got too excited and hiked too much!
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Handling Cancer…
Feb 10th
At work this past week, I sat through a presentation by Jeanne Sather discussing how she came to blog. Her site, assertivepatient.com, is about Jeanne’s experiences dealing with cancer. Throughout her presentation reviewing some of the articles she’s posted, you could hear the determination and conviction that Jeanne has for living, along with her own unique humor, including “Breast-Cancer Barbie”.
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